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At The Untamed, we believe soulful desire creates nourishing magic. This means that owning your deepest desires unlocks a life of profound magic and fulfillment. You finally come home to who you truly are.

For too long, you've lived within the boundaries set by society, glimpsing moments of limitless potential but always being pulled back to reality—told to stay grounded, to be sensible. Bit by bit, civilization has tamed you, binding you to a life of routine and restraint. You've forgotten the dreams that once fuelled you, the magic that is your true, untamed self.

When you embrace your desires, you awaken the force of who you are. When you harness your life force energy, your life itself becomes a force to be reckoned with.

The Untamed workshops guide you on a holistic journey back to your authentic self by using the five branches of tantra as a guide: White, Red, Pink, Black, and Grey. Through breath, movement, dialogue, and experience we help you break free from the confines you've unconsciously accepted.

Our workshops offer more than techniques—they provide a living philosophy that transcends societal norms and frees you to live as the fullest expression of who you are meant to be.

Sexual liberation is about more than just sexual pleasure; it's a holistic approach to celebrating your body, embracing your true self, and awakening your sensuality. By integrating spirituality, sexuality, body awareness, and mindfulness, you foster a deeper connection with yourself and your surroundings. When you are fully present in life's continuous journey of growth and change, you create space for genuine transformation by allowing all experiences, pleasant or otherwise, to be embraced. Sexuality is a natural expression of life force energy, a gateway to spiritual connection – we help you to achieve this through presence, heart connection, and self-acceptance.

It's time to reclaim your magic. It’s time to live Untamed.

Our Workshops:

Our workshops all follow a similar structure. We open by explaining the subject of the workshop and have a quick discussion on boundaries and consent. From there we share a meditation or breathwork exercise to unwind our nervous systems and open ourselves to the learning ahead. A group discussion follows a theory talk where we can explore beliefs and anxieties before we move into the practical component of the workshop. Each workshop offers different practical exercises, taking into consideration the comfort of our participants – you will never be coerced into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. We close our workshops with a group debrief, reflect on our experiences and learnings, and include some exercises you can try at home.

Our dress code for all our workshops is according to your comfort level unless otherwise specified. In general, we ask that genital areas remain covered, but you have the freedom to leave nipples uncovered. There is no requirement to undress; you are welcome to wear as much, or as little clothing as feels comfortable to you.

A percentage of our profit is donated to the Rape Crisis Centre.

What makes our Workshops unique?

Expert facilitation – we’re both highly intuitive with a gentle yet transformative approach.

Practical techniques – we learn by doing in a safe judgement-free zone, and always give you loads of exercises to try at home.

Interactive group discussions – why don’t we talk about it more? The more we talk and listen, the more we realise we are not alone!

Lived experience - we both tap into our unique lived experience complimented by our training modalities to bring you something that is unique, personal and REAL.

Meet your Facilitators:

Chantelle, affectionately known as "The Catalyst," is an internationally acclaimed expert in identity-driven purpose, celebrated for her unique ability to instigate change among her clients. She is a Life, Career & Performance Coach, Keynote Speaker & Facilitator and soon-to-be published Author.

In 2019, fuelled by a deep-seated desire to inspire people to live meaningful lives, Chantelle launched Dragonfly, her coaching and speaking business. Armed with a PhD from the School of Hard Knocks and over a decade of dedication to personal mastery, Chantelle invites others to join her on their personal VIP creation journey (Vision | Identity | Purpose).

After an intense sexual awakening in 2024, Chantelle partnered with Jay to launch The Untamed – a series of workshops based loosely on tantric principles that teach people to embody their sexuality in a deeper pursuit of understanding their innate identities. Her book, Phoenix Rising, which chronicles this delicious journey will be launched early in 2025.

For the last couple of years, Chantelle has lived as a Nomad in Southern Africa but is now settling back into life in Cape Town. She is an adrenaline junkie who loves 4x4ing and hiking on the weekends but could equally be found on the beach worshipping the sun.

https://linktr.ee/iamchantelle

Jay exudes a calming effect on his clients and has cemented a reputation for intuitively guiding them into releasing stored trauma, healing their bodies, and liberating their sexuality. He believes in a holistic approach to mind, body, and soul.

Having been a Reiki practitioner for over 20 years, he qualified as a Reiki Master in 2017 after relocating permanently from Belgium to South Africa in 2008. Passionate about the healing modalities of touch and massage, he has honed his skills over the last decade to include additional somatic healing modalities.

He also offers Life & Intimacy coaching and leads transformative private Tantric workshops for individuals and couples, helping them deepen their connections and find balance in their lives.

In his spare time, Jay loves hiking, is a devoted yoga enthusiast and avid supporter of the Burlesque world. Being committed as he is to female sexual healing, he donates a percentage of all his profits to the Rape Crisis Centre in Cape Town.

https://hersacredspace.co.za/

Additional services on request:

·       Reiki

·       Manual Lymphatic Drainage

·       Therapeutic Reflexology

·       Tantra Massage

·       Swedish Massage

·       Life & Intimacy Coaching

·       Private couples or individual workshops

·       Life, career, and performance coaching

·       Woman Empowerment & Leadership Coaching

·       Keynote Motivational Speaking for conferences and events

·       Corporate and Team Facilitation

If you have an idea – talk to us. We’re pretty sure we can make it happen 😉