The Self Tie Jam is an invitation inward.

A pause from noise, from performance, from urgency and a return to your own body.

Self-tying can be a deeply nourishing practice: a way to listen, to contain, to soften, and to arrive more fully in yourself. In this jam, rope becomes a companion rather than a goal — a means of sensing your edges, your breath, your emotional weather.

The intention of this space is to quieten the body and soul, allowing stillness to emerge through gentle, mindful self-touch.

If you are curious about Shibari but not sure of where and how to begin, join us to learn more about this rich, diverse and fascinating practice. We will teach some beginner-level content to build a basic understanding of rope bondage and give you a sense of why we love rope so much! No pre-requisites - come as you are!

Experienced practitioners are also welcome to practice and share some skills.

What to Expect

This is a gentle, low-stimulus jam, not a class or workshop.

Tie yourself, at your own pace
Set a personal intention for your practice
Explore stillness, sensation, breath, and presence
Rest, untie, or pause whenever you need

There is no expectation to tie in a particular way, to finish a pattern, or to be “productive.” The focus is on process over outcome.

Structure & Space

The space will be calm and softly held
Quiet conversation is welcome, but silence is also honoured
You are welcome to arrive already knowing what you want to work on — or to discover it slowly as you go

This jam supports both newer self-tyers and experienced practitioners who want a more introspective tying experience.

Themed beginner jams ( like this one ) are a low-pressure learning environment where we introduce a few rope ideas and techniques, provide a bit of direction on how to use them and then open the floor up for people to play and explore with those ideas. Our spaceholders will be there to assist with any questions and ideas, as well as maybe providing a bit of our own inspiration. We want people to be able to have fun and learn at the same time, so we don't want to get too technical, while still maintaining safer rope practices. Come explore, have fun and learn in a calm and social space where you can enjoy Shibari in a low-pressure environment.

OUR TEAM

Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force.

You can follow us on Instagram here:

@embodiment_ct

@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)

@rope.fu (he/him)

@creaturale (they/them)

@fire_lily_kinbaku (she/her)

@sudo_kinbaku_ / @sudojute (he/they)

RULES
1. Be on time.

2. Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you.

3. Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility.

4. Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given.

5. No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free.

6. Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.

7. Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent.

8. Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo.

9. Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity.

10. Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing.

11. Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.

12. Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.

13. Please do not use any recreational drugs before coming or while on site.

FAQ
What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage?

The art of binding the body of a consenting adult.

Is rope/Shibari always sexual?

Rope/Shibari has many benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For others, it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. It can also be a way to experience a connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.

What should I wear?

This is a learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. Comfy, sexy, sporty, fetish - as long as your booty is covered, you are welcome here.

What should I expect on the night?

We hope to create a safe and intimate space where you will get the rare opportunity to learn from highly skilled professionals. You will also have access to our team to chat about rope and connect with the community in a low-pressure environment.

Note on accessibility:

We believe rope is for every body. At the same time the building we are currently occupying does not allow for wheelchair access to ground floor ablution facilities. This is an ongoing negotiation with the current landlords. However the space itself allows for wheelchair access 🙂