Description
At our monthly queer jams, Embodiment rope space becomes the exclusive play space for folks from the LGBTQIA+ community.
Join us for a beautiful evening of flow, connection and play. Ichinawa/ Ippon nawa is a technique of tying a body using a single piece of rope, stripping away distractions and complexities and concentrating on interaction, emotional connection, deep observation and communication.
Ichinawa or Ippon nawa is a minimalistic type of rope bondage that use only one piece of rope, usually 6-10m in length. The focus here is more on the emotional connection between tying partners and on the smoothness of movement and rope handling rather than building a technical rope structure or complex pattern. It is all about the interaction between you and your tying partner, or yourself if you are self-tying, connecting through that single piece of rope. Typically this involves a continuous tying and untying, and this more spontaneous and intuitive push-pull play of being restricted and being freed is what we will be exploring at this event.
In partnered tying, as the rigger (rope top/ person applying ropes) you really need to observe your partner and feel your partner’s responses. More than any other type of rope it’s about synchronicity and coming together in a fluid ‘dance’. Your ichinawa could be really slow, cuddly and tender or it can be really fast, hard and tight and even painful if you choose. It’s about being on the same page as your partner, getting there through negotiation but also through perceiving your partner and responding to the signs your partner gives you in the rope. As a bottom (person receiving rope) it is one of the places where you can explore how you respond and offer your own verbal and non-verbal communication.
Join us to explore this technique of stripping away distractions and complexities and concentrating on the interaction in rope.
Themed beginner jams ( like this one ) are a low-pressure learning environment where we introduce a few rope ideas and techniques, provide a bit of direction on how to use them and then open space up for people to play and explore with those ideas. Our spaceholders will be there to assist with any questions and ideas, as well as maybe providing a bit of our own inspiration.
What is meant by LGBTQIA+ only?
The LGBTQIA+ community encompasses a diverse and inclusive group of individuals who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual, and other sexual orientations, gender identities, and expressions. The "+" at the end of LGBTQIA+ acknowledges the diversity within the community and encompasses identities that may not be explicitly mentioned in the acronym. This can include individuals with non-binary gender identities, pansexual individuals, genderqueer individuals, and more.For our LGBTQIA+/Queer Jams, our primary objective is to remain faithful to our foundational principle of maintaining a space managed by queer individuals, focused on the practice of rope-related and Shibari activities. This environment allows people to confidently and freely engage in exploring this medium alongside their peers and community members. Thus, these Jams exclusively welcome participation from members of the LGBTQIA+ community. You are welcome to come solo, with a friend or partner, or as part of your polycule.
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OUR TEAM
Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force.
You can follow us on Instagram here:
@embodiment_ct
@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)
@creaturale (they/them)
@fire_lily_kinbaku (she/her)
@sudo_kinbaku_ / @sudojute (he/they)
RULES
1. Be on time.
2. Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you.
3. Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility.
4. Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given.
5. No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free.
6. Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.
7. Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent.
8. Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo.
9. Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity.
10. Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing.
11. Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.
12. Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.
13. Please do not use any recreational drugs before coming or while on site.
FAQ
What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage?
The art of binding the body of a consenting adult.
Is rope/Shibari always sexual?
Rope/Shibari has many benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For others, it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. It can also be a way to experience a connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.
What should I wear?
This is a learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. Comfy, sexy, sporty, fetish - as long as your booty is covered, you are welcome here.
What should I expect on the night?
We hope to create a safe and intimate space where you will get the rare opportunity to learn from highly skilled professionals. You will also have access to our team to chat about rope and connect with the community in a low-pressure environment.
Note on accessibility:
We believe rope is for every body. At the same time the building we are currently occupying does not allow for wheelchair access to ground floor ablution facilities. This is an ongoing negotiation with the current landlords. However the space itself allows for wheelchair access :)
