I long to see men in their sexual maturity, at home within themselves.
Community leaders, young visionaries and wise elders animated by the wisdom of their eroticism, and not by its shadow of perversion and abuse.  

I long to meet MEN and not little scared boys.

I have desire for men fulfilled by their own erotic presence and spiritual devotion.

I envision men devoted to their sexual expansion,

offering their body to the humans they love.

A sexually mature woman longs to make love to her equal - not a little boy begging mommy for another cookie .

I’ve spent the last 20 years working with women’s sexual awakening,

now I am on a mission to give men the sex education they never received.

Infuse their penis with erotic wisdom.

Unfortunately the education that men receive is about sexual exploitation - the more the better. Harder. Deeper. Faster and furious. Men have been thought to abuse themselves for the purpose of conquering. Their penis is disconnected from their heart. De-sensitized by rough handling and friction.

After all,  only men disconnected to their heart could go to war, and commit horrible crimes against life itself.

Men have been thought to “take” a woman- and empty his guilt and shame into her body. Men have been thought to pillage, rape and humiliate themselves though sex. They have been thought to use their sex as a weapon, to destroy bodies, communities and hope.

I have a tremendous desire to put things right again.

FOR THE LOVE OF MEN.

FOR THE LOVE OF LIFE. 

I long to teach men that their sex is an instrument of love, not destruction.

Arousal begins in the depth of an innocent heart.

Their erotic aliveness is a sacred offering to the body of Love.

I want to teach men how to penetrate the body of the World with their deepest longings for truth, justice, respect and celebration of the purity of Life.

I want to show them how to use their sexual arousal to restore and

protect erotic innocence and divine pleasure .

I dream of a world where men bestow blessings with their spiritual arousal.

I stand for those MEN .

And that World.

~ Valentina Leo

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