Community Culture & Guidelines
Welcome to S.O.L.O — Search Others, Love Ourselves. This is a conscious community where we explore personal growth, spirituality, healing, embodiment, and authentic connection. To keep this space sacred, we expect everyone to agree to the following:
SOLO community guidelines
1. Real People, Real Presence
Please join with your real name and a clear profile photo. We value human connection, not anonymous participation.
2. Consent and Boundaries
Ask before you DM. Never message someone privately unless you’ve asked for their consent in the group. Consent and respect are non-negotiable here.
3. Respectful Sharing
Speak from your own experience. Listen with openness. Avoid giving unsolicited advice or trying to fix others.
4. Keep It Relevant
The chat is for meaningful connection, not for announcements, political opinions, or side tangents. Share in alignment with the tone of the space. Please also avoid using stickers, gifs, or excessive emojis — words allow for deeper presence and keep the space grounded.
5. No Gossip, Slander, or Naming People Publicly
Speak from your own experience. If harm has occurred, there is a process for that. This isn’t the space to call people out. Please avoid using this group to vent, blame, or create division, especially when naming others. We encourage ownership, reflection, and reaching out through the Safer Space process if support is needed.
6. Leave the Drama at the Door
We’re not here for spirals of negativity. We are here to uplift, witness, and support each other through whatever life brings with kindness and care.
7. No Promotions or Events (Outside Designated Spaces)
Keep event announcements and promotions to the designated Events & Marketplace group. Chat spaces are for conversation, not advertising.
8. Respond rather than react.
This is a space for vulnerability and depth. Slow down. Pause. Respond
9. No Explicit Content or Solicitation
This is not a dating or hook-up space. Conversations around sexuality are welcome when approached consciously and respectfully and in the correct group.
10. Confidentiality and Care
Hold each other’s stories with respect. No gossip, no naming and shaming, no slander. What’s shared here, stays here.
11. Safer Space, Accountability, and Support
We are committed to making this a safer space, knowing that perfection is impossible. If something feels off or a guideline is breached:
You can message Simona or a moderator, or use the Community Feedback Form (anonymous or named)
- We will listen with care and help assess what’s needed: a check-in, a reminder, or support for repair
- If needed, Amy, our trained neutral mediator, is available for compassionate mediation
- Breaches will be met with reflection and conversation first. In rare cases, we may pause or remove someone from the group to protect the container.
solo Sexuality chat guidelines
1. Housekeeping Rules:
✋🏼 NO Event postings
✋🏼 NO Posting external groups
✋🏼 NO DMs unless you’ve received permission to do so
2. The Intention
This is a spiritual, shamanic, and sacred container. This community is designed for meaningful, insightful conversations that explore sexuality from the perspective of body, mind, and soul. Our focus is to foster deep, conscious dialogue that nourishes and elevates our understanding of sexuality in all its forms. We advocate freedom through sexuality and want to steer clear of any pornographic conditioning or “sex club” atmosphere in our conversations. Our intention is for everyone to feel safe, as this is a heart-centered space.
3. Boundaries & Respect
• Please respect the boundaries, consent, and privacy of other members.
• Ask before you DM. Never message someone privately unless you’ve asked for their consent in the group. Consent and respect are non-negotiable here.
• Please take care of yourself and reach out to a group admin if you need any support.
4. If Something Feels Off, Speak Up
This is a community that welcomes courageous conversations. We are not always going to get it right, but we are committed to meeting these moments with care and accountability. There is zero tolerance for predatory, manipulative, or unsafe behaviour. If you feel uncomfortable or unsure, please message me directly. You will be met with care, not judgement. We have a clear, gentle process for listening and responding — including options for support, follow-up, or repair. You are never alone in this space.
Roles & Support
Simona – Founder & Guardian
Mariette Carsten – Female Body Moderator
The Support Circle – Email simona@solocommunity.org
Referred Sage for Mediation & Therapy – Amy Lee Nelson