Join us for an exploration of the many and various ways to build, develop and sustain dynamics of power and surrender in rope.

So much is said about connection, dominance and submission in rope bondage. But how does one create the conditions for this beautiful dynamic to occur in a rope session? What is meant by power exchange and how do you even know where on the spectrum your desires lie? Does there have to be a power exchange at all in order to reach places of surrender and trust?

Using simple and beginner-friendly ties, we will look at several principles in tying that will transform your sessions into deeply meaningful experiences for all participants. With the emphasis on “how” to tie, every rope session can become a building block toward transforming your practice from a technical exercise to one of deep connection.

In this class-to-jam, we will demo and discuss the many ways, both overt and subtle techniques, to build a dynamic that suits your desires.

We will look the moments before a rope is even laid, at posture, distance, tempo, body positioning and more. After the demo, we move into the jam part of the evening - an open space to explore and play freely with these new understandings, where you can combine this approach with any other ties you want, or simply play and share rope with your partner.

No pre-requisites - come as you are!

Experienced practitioners are also welcome to level up, practice and share some skills.

OUR TEAM

Embodiment Rope Space is the love child of a group of volunteers from different walks of life coming together to actualize something we think the world needs: a queer safe(r) space for exploring kink as a healing, connective force.

You can follow us on Instagram here:

@embodiment_ct

@faeriebunnyrope (she/her)

@rope.fu (he/him)

@creaturale (they/them)

@fire_lily_kinbaku (she/her)

@sudo_kinbaku_ / @sudojute_v2 (he/they)

Embodiment rope space is a welcoming and safe (r) space for members of the LQBTQIA+ community and allies. Rope is never safe, there are only ways to practice it more safely.

Please study the FAQ and ethos of our space on our website, www.embodimentropespace.co.za before attending.

Tickets via our website www.embodimentropespace.co.za

Important information:

- Please wear something you can comfortably sit in/ move around in. Leggings > sweatpants > jeans
- If you have rope, bring it along. Otherwise you are welcome to us your class rope.
- Please adhere to the ethos of our space.
- ROAR
- Please note this is an alcohol and substance free space

Ropey things for sale: We have limited treated rope from Sudo Jute (variable price range: R400-500 per 8m hank) and safety shears for sale.

RULES
1. Be on time.

2. Respect the space. Leave no trace - whatever you bring, take it back with you.

3. Ego has no place here. Learn and share with humility.

4. Ask for people’s pronouns and use the ones you are given.

5. No shoes. Keep underwear on at public events. Nipples may be free.

6. Do not make unsolicited comments about anyone else's body.

7. Do not take any photos of anyone in attendance without consent.

8. Do not post photos without the consent of EVERYONE in the photo.

9. Do not reveal the identity of anyone you meet in the space once you leave. Many people prefer anonymity.

10. Be mindful of making noise in the space when others are tying around you, this includes loud talking and laughing.

11. Be discrete when moving through other parts of the premises. Clothes are optional in the space but not outside the door.

12. Please stay home if you are feeling unwell.

13. Please do not use any recreational drugs before coming or while on site.

FAQ
What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage?

The art of binding the body of a consenting adult.

Is rope/Shibari always sexual?

Rope/Shibari has many benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For others, it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. It can also be a way to experience a connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.

What should I wear?

This is a learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. Comfy, sexy, sporty, fetish - as long as your booty is covered, you are welcome here.

What should I expect on the night?

We hope to create a safe and intimate space where you will get the rare opportunity to learn from highly skilled professionals. You will also have access to our team to chat about rope and connect with the community in a low-pressure environment.

Note on accessibility:

We believe rope is for every body. At the same time the building we are currently occupying does not allow for wheelchair access to ground floor ablution facilities. This is an ongoing negotiation with the current landlords. However the space itself allows for wheelchair access :)